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29-Sep-2017 13:26

Since there was no way to know who would stick around, I dated as many guys as I was interested in at the same time.

That's why I'm an advocate for "volume dating."I dated 30 men in 15 months in order to eventually meet my husband.

I was never comfortable playing the field by dating two guys at a time—I felt sneaky and unethical.

I didn’t know how to deal with two men texting and calling me or how to handle their sexual advances.

It turns out, the secret to finding love and commitment is not committing too soon.

Eh, that joke was funny but not as funny as the ones that the guy I date on Saturdays tells. Great, now I've met another person who knows I'm dating this person and I have to spend my dates with other people looking for that person like they're a spy who could cause my undoing. When I was looking for love, I often dated up to three guys simultaneously.I wasn't trying to hit some number in the Guinness Book of World Records.I threw all my eggs into his basket and we dated until he unexplainly disappeared into the night.

Dating one man at a time is a mistake on several levels, that is: You invest your time, energy and emotions in a man and then weeks or months later you decide he’s the wrong man.This keeps you emotionally objective, and in a position to choose more wisely."When women are dating more than one man at once they also appear to have a “high-value” status is the eyes of men.“They instinctively know that they can’t take her for granted, or they’ll lose her to a more deserving candidate,” Sami said.